Being at ease with not knowing is crucial for answers to come to you.
~ Eckhart Tolle
Being at ease is easier said than done. It’s the feeling of feeling comfortable in your own skin; no matter where you are (work, with friends, etc).
It’s something so simple and yet so difficult to achieve, there are people we feel we need to please, the social pressure…
The question is, why do you think you have to please anyone? The only person that really matters in your life is you. You have to live with yourself for the rest of your life.
Being at ease, finding comfort in who you are, is possibly the first (and possibly only) step you should take in your daily interaction with people.